Saturday, March 9, 2019

Photographs And Memories By Benedict T. Palen, Jr.


There is an old Jim Croce song with this title, and I think of it when I am in my study, the walls of which are lined with photographs that go back some 40 years.   All of the photos bring back cherished memories, whether of wheat harvests back home in Kansas, holding my infant son in the first few months of his life, and photos of my wedding day.

Benedict T palen Jr

Many of these photos were taken long before the internet, and all of its permutations, came into our lives.   We might get instant gratification from some photo that was just posted on the internet, but the memory fades in a few days.

These photos on the walls represent a sort of permanent presence in my life.  They bring sadness in some cases when I see photos of my parents; they bring great joy when I see photos of my son, and think about the good person that he is, all these years later; they bring comfort when I see photos of the simple farm house in Kansas, home, the house that built me.  These dozens of photos of the walls wrap their arms around me as they serve as important bookmarks in the chapters of my life.

Take the time to preserve the old family photos that you probably have stuck in some box in the attic.  They are the links that help to bind us, individually, and as families, and they will keep that special meaning for all of our days.

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